I suppose that some of you might be a little surprised that a question like that even needs to be considered. After all, you’ve paid your hard-earned cash for her time and her body, so why are there any limitations on what you can do with her?
Actually, there are a number of reasons why the title of this article is a quite reasonable question. The very first reason is that there are some things that individual girls simply won’t do.
Some girls never kiss. Some girls don’t necessarily want the guy to touch them. These girls are only happy if they are on top and in complete control of the situation. They don’t want to be touched, they don’t want to be kissed, they don’t want their nipples sucked, or their pussy licked, and sometimes you have to wonder why they are in the business at all.
Still, you won’t know how far a girl is willing to go unless you ask her when you make that first phone call. You may think that asking is a bit cold and clinical, but we understand and appreciate that it is important to you. It’s better to have it out in the open right from the start, rather than to not say anything and find later that you’re very unhappy with what we provide.
So be prepared to ask and get those basics out of the way early; if you do, then your first experience will be much more enjoyable. That first experience with a girl is very critical to both of you, especially if you hope to establish a long term relationship with her.
Obviously you are going to go along hoping for the wild time that you have been thinking about for weeks. At the same time, the girl is going to be seeing you for the very first time, and she doesn’t know you. You might sound really nice on the phone, but most girls will still be more than a little reserved on that first occasion.
Hearing that might disappoint you, but spare a thought for the girl and try to understand her situation. When we go into a session with a new client, we are very vulnerable. We don’t know whether you are the nicest guy on the planet or a real creep who wants to do us harm, and so we exercise a little care.
We expect you to be nervous, but we don’t expect you to be aggressive or demanding, or to suddenly make some moves on us that we weren’t expecting. Those sorts of things tend to scare us, so take a few moments to get some guidelines from the girl even before you start the action.
You would be surprised how quickly reservations that we hold between us and new clients can dissolve into thin air on subsequent visits. As your escort gets to know you better, she will begin to relax. If she is like me, by the third or fourth visit, there is very little that I won’t do. As long as it feels good for both of us, then it’s quite OK with me.
But there is an important point right there. It has to feel good for both of us, and if the girl declines to do something, don’t try to convince her that you know how good it will be for her. If she declines to do something, it’s because she knows that it doesn’t feel good for her, and she knows that through experience.
On the other hand, if it’s something that she has never tried before, then she will probably be willing to experiment. If she does, take it slowly. If you want something to feel good for her, then be prepared to take the time to build her up to it.
I’m one of those girls who like to let regular clients set their own pace, and so when he was ready to try different things, I was happy to let him do them to me. I think that lots of girls are like that. We understand that you want to maximize your pleasure, but we aren’t going to lead you beyond where you feel comfortable. The easiest way to do that is to let you set the pace.
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